Are You Living Where You Are Supposed To Be?
Are You Living Where You’re Supposed to Be?
May 20, 2025
Written by Jennifer Ross
There’s a question I’ve been hearing again and again lately — from friends, clients, even strangers:
“I just don’t know if I’m supposed to be living here anymore or where I’m going to land next.”
Sometimes it’s literal — a city, a home, a neighborhood that used to feel right but now feels tight, foreign or strangely unrecognizable.
Other times, it’s deeper:
A quiet curiosity if this version of your life — the routines, the relationships, the pace, the values — is still meant for you. Or has it or you changed…or grown?
These questions can feel disorienting, especially when nothing is technically wrong.
The lease is fine. The job is fine. You live near your family or friends.
And yet — something inside you knows: this isn’t it anymore.
In RTT, this is often where we begin.
Because what you’re really questioning usually isn’t just location —
It’s belonging. Permission. Identity.
Somewhere along the line, we internalized certain rules about when we’re allowed to feel settled:
When we’ve “earned” it. When we’ve performed enough. When everyone else is comfortable.
But your nervous system isn’t a spreadsheet.
It’s wise. It knows when a season is ending.
RTT helps decode that restlessness — to find the subconscious stories underneath the surface questions.
Stories like:
“I’m not allowed to start over.”
“I should be grateful for what I have.”
“What if I feel the same somewhere else?”
If these quiet thoughts have been bubbling up for you lately, you’re not broken or indecisive.
You’re evolving.
And you deserve to feel at home in your life — not just your zip code.
RTT sessions are available virtually.
If you’re standing in the doorway of change and unsure how to move through it, I’d be honored to help.
Free consults are open — just reach out.
You get to reimagine what home means, inside and out.
Trust me, I have worked on this first-hand as an ex-pat most of my adult life.
It can be exciting and a beautiful journey to go there….and investigate these feelings even further.
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Jennifer Ross
RTT Practitioner | Founder, Jennifer Mary Ross LLC
www.jennifermaryross.com
